Transracial Adoption Through the Lens of Ubuntu
Beyond Self: Embracing Adoption with the Ubuntu Spirit Ubuntu, an African philosophy meaning "I am because we are," emphasizes our interconnectedness and shared humanity. This concept reminds us that individual growth is deeply tied to the well-being of others. When considering adoption, fears naturally arise, including: Fear of inadequacy as a parent Fear of the child's past trauma Fear of disrupting one’s current life Fear of adopting a child from a different race By embracing Ubuntu, we can address these fears with compassion, community, and a sense of shared purpose. Overcoming Common Fears 1. Fear of Inadequacy Parenting, including adoption, is a shared journey of growth for both parent and child. It's normal to feel uncertain, but: Community support—other adoptive families, therapists, and support groups—can offer guidance and reassurance. Ubuntu reminds us: "I am because we are." You are not alone in this journey. Strength comes from learning ...